Hi Supervisor,
Sorry I just got your email and I have been texting (caseworker) but please remember they call me and also text me. I get called about court, about (child) crying wanting to go home. (CASEWORKER) tells my child that (the child) doesn't know that she is never going back to a home that she loves and loves her. I text her yesterday because MY 5 year old's school called and said he is crying allot at school. And I told caseworker that my 5 year old does not want to go to school because he sees her daily and doesn't understand why she is not home. I myself am having problems with this. We are not allowed to go up to her but see her daily twice a day. This child is my niece and (caseworker) stated more then once that if they try to return her, she would quiet and speak up about this because she knows child was sexually abused by step-father. Under the Law Children Task Force 23 I was and am protecting the children. All involved know that she was abuse but no one but me is doing anything about it.
What I am upset about is that everyone tells me to speak up, and then they do not. And yes if you say to me your going to do it I take you by your word. Dont say one thing and do another. I can say I fought for the safety of the children with out ever having regrets. Also my children are now being abuse emotionally daily because they see (child) daily. Why are you not helping us in this. Do you see we suffer daily seeing child . That this is a painful thing we see everyday. Then we are told that we will have to deal with this until December 16th. No one is seeing that YOUR FOSTER AGENCY is abusing my other children and me that we deal with it everyday when we leave the school and leave the child there. So how am I to heal or my children heal when this is still going threw this daily for us.
Hostile if you want to call what I text her yesterday, then ok. I told her the truth. I restated what she told me. Ask her did she say she would leave the job. Ask her if she on her own not me calling her told me about court. Not once before that was I ever angry at her and yes I also keep all my text messages. But what Foster Care Agency is doing is worst. You are abusing my 5 year old son and I myself am suffering daily, we are in tears seeing her and not able to go up to her. So who is doing the abuse and being hostile. If this was your family and you saw a loved one ever day twice a day and could not go up to her would you be ok. Everyone at the office goes home. You, yourself see it as a job. But it is not a job. It is our family that is being hurt. The sad part is that the agency is doing the abuse. I never thought in my life that Foster Care Agency would treat me this way. At this point the way I see it this office as abusing my children and harming all of us involved . I can truly say from my soul that Foster Care Agency has abuse me and has caused damage for life. Look at it from the outside. Can everyone at that office go home knowing what will happen to that baby girl when she goes back to that home. Can you truly say that us seeing child daily and not able to go up to her is healthy for us or her. How can we heal when we are reliving the harm twice a day since October 18th. How can anyone heal.
